Do you know that human beings are endowed from the beginning of time with one major quality which if properly used can be a solution to many of our daily problems in life? Which is silence: The ability to remain silent in some seeming uncontrollable situations.
As simple or common this might sound, those who failed to recognize its magical power are currently in their early graves, hospitals, prisons or having broken homes.
In this post I will quickly describe some situations where there is a need for one to remain silent which can prevent one from making so costly a mistake.
1. An unfortunate encounter with someone who is having a bad time:
I believe this scenario is often common at work or at social gatherings when someone with whom you often play can easily pick an offence from any little thing you say. And to prevent the situation from degenerating to a regrettable end, it is better for one to resort to being silent and calmly walk way.
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2. Discussions turning to arguments:
Often time, during discussions with loved ones, light discussions can turn to heated arguments. One must not be carried away when this effectually happens. Because argument always creates unnecessary hatred. It is always seen as a competition of egos by the parts involved. people are left emotionally hurt at the end. So when a discussion is turning to a heated argument one person should be silent and calmly claim to agree with the other person for peace to reign.
3. When an audience is not credited during a discussion:
Have you ever found yourself in a casual group of discussion where different views are raised by everyone on a particular topic of discourse and an audience or the necessary acknowledgement is not created for you to add your own views. In this situation you might feel disgruntled and dejected. This always happens when everyone wants his voice to be heard which always results to a lack of decorum and unnecessary quarrels within the group. So in this situation, one needs to know how to be silent and calmly walk away.
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Conclusively, there are a lot of situations in which this quality - the ability to know when to be silent in our daily encounter with people in life, needs to be applied. And the ability to know when to apply it makes one the master of the act. Being a master of this act will prevent one from always having emotional troubles and a lot of preventable mishaps from befalling on us.
DO NOT WORRY! EVERYTHING WILL SOON BE ALRIGHT
As simple or common this might sound, those who failed to recognize its magical power are currently in their early graves, hospitals, prisons or having broken homes.
In this post I will quickly describe some situations where there is a need for one to remain silent which can prevent one from making so costly a mistake.
1. An unfortunate encounter with someone who is having a bad time:
I believe this scenario is often common at work or at social gatherings when someone with whom you often play can easily pick an offence from any little thing you say. And to prevent the situation from degenerating to a regrettable end, it is better for one to resort to being silent and calmly walk way.
CHECK HERE: WHY WE NEED TO HAVE A SECOND THOUGHT ABOUT RELIGIONS IN AFRICA.
2. Discussions turning to arguments:
Often time, during discussions with loved ones, light discussions can turn to heated arguments. One must not be carried away when this effectually happens. Because argument always creates unnecessary hatred. It is always seen as a competition of egos by the parts involved. people are left emotionally hurt at the end. So when a discussion is turning to a heated argument one person should be silent and calmly claim to agree with the other person for peace to reign.
3. When an audience is not credited during a discussion:
Have you ever found yourself in a casual group of discussion where different views are raised by everyone on a particular topic of discourse and an audience or the necessary acknowledgement is not created for you to add your own views. In this situation you might feel disgruntled and dejected. This always happens when everyone wants his voice to be heard which always results to a lack of decorum and unnecessary quarrels within the group. So in this situation, one needs to know how to be silent and calmly walk away.
STOP WORRYING ABOUT BEAUTY HERE IS THE SECRET
Conclusively, there are a lot of situations in which this quality - the ability to know when to be silent in our daily encounter with people in life, needs to be applied. And the ability to know when to apply it makes one the master of the act. Being a master of this act will prevent one from always having emotional troubles and a lot of preventable mishaps from befalling on us.
DO NOT WORRY! EVERYTHING WILL SOON BE ALRIGHT
