MOMENT OF TRUTH: YOU WILL NEVER KNOW HOW QUALITES OF A GOOD HUSBAND COULD SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE

To strike a balance, I will be discussing the qualities of a good husband in this post, since the qualities of good wife were discussed in the previous post.

Every good husband always looks for every means to keep his home but unkowingly one might be deviating from the right part. Below the qualites of a good husband will be discussed, and if  you see where you are lagging behind ,you need to adjust to avoid loosing your home.

1.Trust:
 A good husband will always trust his wife. He will not stalk his wife by prying to her phone or secretely following her around to find out any evidence of cheating.

A good husband must avoid acting on what people tell him against his wife. If possible avoid listening to them, because this will create unnecessary suspicions that will later generate rift in the marriage.

2.Be there for your wife:
A good husband will always be there for his wife whenever she needs him. Even if he is really occupied with his busy schedule,

he must ensure he creates time to be with his wife. And at this point in time when your wife needs you, you must ensure you make her have the feeling that you have ''got her back'' by being attentive and exhibiting active listening when she voices out her worries or talk to you.

3.Acceping your wife for whom she is:
A good husband must love his wife's good qualities and accept her flaws too.

He must not complain or blame her for her shortcomings. Instead he should be supportive and assisting her to improve on her weaknesses. There are alot of hidden attributes of your wife that will become clear in the marriage, you should consider that as your cross and still continue to love her.
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4. Accepting your responsiblities:
Since no man is perfect, a good husband must learn to accept his responsibities . And when he makes mistakes, he must accept it and avoid shifting the blame on his wife.

He must learn to admit his faults and, if there is a need, apologise to his wife for the troubles he might have caused her as a result of his mistakes.

5. Always consult your wife:
When making decisions concerning the home, especially finacial decisions, your wife's opinions matter too.

Since both of you are a team, so factoring in her opinions in every decision making sends a signal that she is relevant and her views are also very important in the marriage and she will love you more for this.

6. Go on a date with her:
  No matter how busy your schedule is , ensure you find time to spend quality time with your wife. Take her on a date and  also join her in the activities the she likes more than you do.

let her enjoin every minute of the time spent with her. Most importantly always ensure she is happy and you make your presence count whenever you are with her by doing or saying to her whatever you know makes her happy.

7. Meeting your responsibilities:

 As a good husband, you must strive to always meet your family's financial responsibilies. Occationally, if you could not provide for your family financially for any reason, your wife will understand and support you.

8. Bring the best out of your wife:  Everybody has dreams and aspirations, avoid being the killer of your wife's dreams.

Support her in her dreams and always ensure to bring the best out of your wife. She will appreciate this gesture and love you more for it.

9. Be dependable:
As a good husband, you must be dependable and be relied upon by your wife.

You must ensure that your wife have the belief that your presence is significant  and will always soften (if not solve) her problems.

10 Be honest:
you must be honest.

You must give your wife every reason to trust you by not cheating on her or getting involved in any immoral activity that will raise unnecessary suspicions.

11. Be caring:

As a good husband , you must be affectionate, caring, forgiven, generous and  sensitive to your wife's  needs.

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