OSUN STATE GOVERNORSHIP ELECTION - THE CONFIRMATION OF A BITTER TRUTH.

It is high time Nigerians accepted the fact that our politians are always after the fulfilment of  their own selfish interests irrespective of the political parties they are.

VOTERS  CASTING THEIR VOTES

This is evident from the recent concluded governorship election in Osun state Nigeria.

On the 22nd of September Osun state winessed an election that was full of dramas and the unbelievables and from which we must not fail to recognise the take-home messages - Nigerian votes never count and thereby never decide who occupies any political office in the country.

VOTERS AT A POLLING UNIT

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For clarity sake I will like to list the the candidates that were vying for the governship position in that state who were Alhaji Gboyega Oyetola who contested on the platform All Progressive Congress (APC) , Alhaji Moshood Adeoti (Action Democratict Party), Senator Ademola Adeleke ( People Democratic Party), Senator Iyiola Omisore (Social Democratic Party), Olapade Okunola (The Accord Party ), Prof. Ife Adewumi (The Providence Peoples’ Congress) and many more. But the election in reality was actually between the ruling party APC and PDP.

It came as a shock to every lover of democracy when the election was declared inconclusive by the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) which ordered a re-run of the election to hold on the 27th of September in seven poling units due to cancellation of their votes over hijacking of materials by thugs in those areas.

Ademola Adeleke

But where the PDP candidate, Adeleke, should have been declared the winner of the election for leading APC  with 353 votes - He had 254,698 while APC had 254,345 votes.

The pretext that was later given by the INEC was that the number of cancelled votes in those polling unites was 3498 and which  was more than the number of votes Senator Ademola Adeleke led with. But if APC had led PDP with that number of votes, I believe the election wouldn't have been declared inconclusive.

The declaring of the election inconclusive is not the major concern here but the agreement of Iyiola Omisore of Social Democratic Party (SDP) to support the ruling party, APC, in the rerun election after he has previously condemned the party  during his campaigns for the election. This is one of his statements and I quote, " the present government is not sincere. Our people are impoverished, but the state government is giving jobs to plumbers, masons and other artisans from Lagos".
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This Omisore's act sends an unequivocal message to the general public that our politicians are not a group of men of principles.

IYIOLA OMISORE

They are a group of selfish people who do not have the best interests of masses at heart. They only support any political group that protects their selfish interests. And yet ignorantly many Nigerians still rally around and support them on this mission.
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On the 27 of September when the rerun election was held, with the support of Omisore after his terms and conditions were accepted by the APC and the preventions of voters to cast their votes for PDP by APC tugs, APC finally had the highest votes and was declared the winner of the election.

This clearly shows us an insight into what 2019 presidential election will look like. It obvious that our votes do not count and our voices can not be heard, we need to sit down and devise another means to snatch our country from these political pests before they finish devouring the fibre of this nation and  leave nothing for our posterity.

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WHAT NO ONE WILL TELL YOU ABOUT NNU.NG IS FINALLY REVEALED.

It is a pity that Nigerian youths are always susceptible to online swindlers despite the horrible experience many Nigerians had from the recent ponzi scheme called MMM in Nigeria.

The level of unemployment in Nigeria has now caused many Nigerians to choose " eat or be eaten" as their watchword. Where a group of individuals survive at the expense of the gullible ones.

This watchword is what a mr Paul Samson  has used to his favour by fleecing Nigerian youths of their hard earnings with a fake promise that they will get monthly earnings in return through a platform, known as nnu.ng.

This Mr Paul is said to be the owner of Paul Samson.coming's blog , the founder of G-Cyber Technologies®BN 2453653 and also another referral based network where he also carries out this extortion of Nigerians, known as coolnaira.com. 

To prevent more Nigerians from falling victims to this man, I will break down the hidden cunning technique this nnu.ng platform uses to swindle its participants.
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The platform asks every new participant to pay 1600 naira as a membership fee to enjoy the platform benefits, which are termed NIP ( NNU Income Program) and NARs (NNU Ads  revenue sharing)

The NARs earnings is based on your activities on the platform; your daily visit to the site, your comments on the site posts and sharing of the posts to create more awareness to other gullible prospective victims.
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And NAP is the commission you get for referring new members to the platform, which is 1000 Naira per a referral, called referral earnings. And it is said that referring new members is not compulsory, that means without having referral earnings you will still get paid at end of the month.

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What the participants do not know are:
nnu.ng is a site that needs traffic everyday, in another word, visitors to the site to survive, that will enable the platform to get online adverts companies to place their adverts on the site for the platform to generate revenues.
And the 1600 naira they get from every new participants also go to the pockets of the platform.
With the above means, the platform makes a lot of money.

But this is how the platform extorts its participants.

They will tell the new participants that its not mandatory to have referral earnings before they can get paid between 27 to 30 of the month as long as they have up to 5000 naira in their account (NARs) which contradicts their payments policy.

The payment policy goes thus; '' When you make a withdrawal request, your profile and activities will be checked, if you are not eligible, you will get a reply before or during the next payout starting from 27th of the month including the reason why you may not get paid yet." And "eligible withdrawals starting from referral earners will get paid first from the month revenue as usual. If revenue is enough, the remnant will be shared with other withdrawals without referral earnings.''

" But, once the available revenue is finally exhausted, pending earning will be carried over to the following month revenue payout. If you did not get paid while you have earned N5,000 threshold, it doesn’t mean you wont get paid while the system keep running."

These are points that the participants fail to ponder on:
1. what will make one not to be eligible after they have performed the required activities expected of them

2 They will always pay the participants with the highest referral earnings first and if the revenue generated gets exhausted, the participants without referral earnings' payments will be carried over to the next month. And the same process will still continue to take place every month.
So its possible that participants without referral earning will not be paid at all, despite the effort, time , data and money they have spent on the program, since the policy says as long as the system keeps runnig'' the participant without earnings will be paid, it means that if the system stops running they will not get paid.
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With this unholy policy, those who struggle to have more than 2 referrals earnings even up to 15 referrals earnings still complain of not being paid.

They only pay a little fractions out of those who request for withdrawals and at the end they will come up with one excuse; either there is no service because of rains or revenues generated get exhausted, to the extent that many of the members come online to ask people to buy their accounts.

This mr Paul Samson has made millions of naira through this extortion and ignorantly some of the participants still praise him with the hope that one day they will get paid.
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So this post is to call the attention of Nigerian youths to another incarnation of MMM, a ponzi scheme, before more people will get hurt. "A word is enough to the wise"

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UNDERSTAND HOW TO ACHIEVE YOUR AMBITION BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE.

It is said that the best talents with best ambitions are in graves. And I believe there are still a lot of talented people alive who are yet to discover their talents. Fortunately , there are still those who will  die with smiles on their faces, because they have fulfilling lives. They are able to achieve their lifetime ambitions with their talents. If you want to have a smile on your face too while exiting this live, you must learn to live a satisfactory life. To achieve this is not difficult at all, you just need to practise the following steps.
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Have an ambition:
It is not surprising if you do not have any ambition yet. Probably, after considering how unfriendly to achieve one's desires your environment is or you think achieving an ambition is impossible since you were not born with a silver spoon.

I assure you today that you can attain any height in life, and you can even touch the moon, all you need to start with is having that ambition. Have an ambition and be sure that your ambition is inline with what you have passion for. With this, you are set to leave a fulfilling life.
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Set your goal;
This is the stage where you set your target by thinking of the systems, process and structures to facilitate and achieve this end result, which is your ambition.

For example, if you want to become a Nigeria senator or president, you need to first think of how to join a political part and to know whom you will need to meet with to achieve it.

Set your plan:
This is the stage where you put how to achieve your ambition in writing. So here the process to achieve this target is captured in a note, for you to know how feasible the process is and to allow the process to be reviewed. Your plan must include a target date; when this ambition will be actualised.

If you need to learn a course or something as a part of the steps, the date you will start and finish the course will be stated in your plan. And this plan should be rechecked at least everyday or everyweek for a review to know if your goal objectives are being met -- if what you are doing at that point in time is in line with your plan.
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Execute your plan:
Once your plan is ready, start putting the plan into effect and do not procrastinate.

Avoid spending your time on something  irrelevant to your plan. Surprisingly, law of attraction will now start working for you ; the people who will assist you to achieve this goal will start coming forth. And funnily you would never have met them if you had not started working on achieving your ambition.

Be persistent:
while carrying out your plan, do not be discouraged by the challenges you will encounter. Do not give up by the disappointment you will face.

No good thing comes easily. The bigger the ambition the tougher the challenges will be. You should always expect hurdles on your path to success, so you must never give up.

Choose the right friends:
Be selective when choosing the kind of people you associate with.

Always be with people of positive minds and not with naysayers, those who always have negative views in everything. Be with those who will always encourage and tell you why your plan will work out ,but not with those who will always have reasons while your plans will not work.
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Be resilient:
I understand you will be dejected when your plan fails . I undertand you will feel like giving up when you are crushed with these worldly disappointment.

Not to worry everything will be alright. Try to learn how to stand on your feet on time after a fall. Try to learn how to withstand and quickly recover from your difficult situations. The ability to be on your feet quickly after a fall makes you a solder of life. Never give up. your motto should be "no retreat no surrender".

Be time conscious:
All work and no play makes jack a dull boy. So take some times off to play with your friends and family. And also do some exercise to keep your health intact.

But be time conscious. Do not spend more than  scheduled time on any activity.

Be prayerful:
If you believe in any God you can pray to him but if not it is not compulsory.

Just be truthful to yourself ,work hard and do not forget to comply with the law of the land. with all these, your ambition will be actualised.
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Discovering of your talents:
In the course of  practising the above steps, you will get to discover your innate talent and at end you will die a fulfilled man or woman.

Note: © 2018 Olusegun Abayomi, I reserve all rights with the international copyright law to any of the articles you on this site. They were all written without plagiarizing anybody's work. If you want to use any of my articles anywhere, ensure you attach a reference to it or else your website will be reported and blocked. Thanks.

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CAN NIGERIA RECOVER HER LOST VALUES?

It's really painful that mankind is slowly losing his humanity. Fairness has become something of the past. Injustice and impunity are now a daily practice and seen as a norm that attracts no concerns.

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This is evident from the incident I witnessed in a BRT bus recently :

  

No one is always allowed to sit at the box beside the driver's seat which houses the engine of the bus.When all the seats are occupied, all the passengers that come thereafter we take a standing. 

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So the seats were all occupied as the case was. The passengers who were coming in after were standing. And a few who made an attempt to sit at the box were rudely declined by the driver. 

Surprisingly a set of two men came in and sat confidently at the box without any word from the driver. 

That worried me, I decided to question the sense of fairness of this driver by asking him why the men were allowed to sit there. He said, "they are staffs".
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Should anyone be excepted from the effectiveness of a policy? 

And in the government too, there has been a public concern on the injustice displayed by President Buhari against the southerners. 

He appointed Zainab Ahmed, a Northerner, as acting minister for finance after Kemi Adeosun ,

ZAINAB AHMED 

a southerner, a formal Nigeria minister of finance, resigned due to the alleged NYSC certificate scandal, though there is another version of the story as to why she really resigned.
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It was said that Kemi Adeosun refused to dance to the tunes of Buhari's people who needed an access to the Federal funds for the 2019 election. 

                                                                      Kemi Adeosun

But that will be a topic for another day. The public concerns now border on why he didn't appoint another southerner to occupy the office.

So we can all see, that human beings have lost their way. The unethical deeds are now seen moral. The portrait of evil in the society is now being greeted with "tomb up". 

I was once told that the Nigeria socioeconomic improvement and the eradication of corruption only lie in the hands of Nigeria leaders, obviously, not only in the hands of our leaders now, but in all the Nigeria citizens' hands

We need to bring back our lost values before everything will degenerate to anarchy.

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HERE IS WHAT NO ONE TELLS LADIES ON THE NEED TO RECHECK A MISCONCEPTION ABOUT DECIDING ON WHOM TO SPEND THE REST OF THEIR LIVES WITH.

A home disastrous notion has become a general belief which ladies nowadays consider as a benchmark to choose someone they spend the rest of their lives with. In this post an effort will be made to correct this misconception.
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A dealer narrated to me how he stated an affair with his customer's wife;
It was an early morning, when this dealer was in his customer's sitting room for a business transaction, as an agent that serves as an intermediary between those who want to sell their cars and who want to buy them. On this Faithful day he was there to buy a car. And something unexpectedly happened.

As the customer was counting the money paid to him by the agent, his wife was disturbingly going about the sitting room and secretly eyeing the agent. The agent, who is a pro in this act, quickly understood the signal, and cunningly  slipped his phone to the wife. The wife typed in her phone number and secretly returned the phone back. To cut the long story short, that was how the affair started.
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So, why did she decide to cheat on her husband? That was the question that came to my mind after the agent finished his story. It was later revealed that she was avenging her husband's infidelity act.

The man has been a well-to-do man  before they got married and always there for her financially.

During the courtship, she noticed that her fiance used to cheat on her, but she was of the opinion that as long as the man could be financially

responsible in her life that she was fine with it.

Now, In the marriage , the husband couldn't help it but to become a serial cheater. The wife had tried several times to talk him out of  this act but obviously that didn't work. That was why she resorted to a mirror effect action - avenging her husband infidelity with the same act. She has forgotten now that she was once cool with it.

Though there are a lot of reasons why married people cheat, which i will not be able to cover in this post. But why can't one prevent what one knows will have a ruinous end from the beginning?

 I only share this story in a bid to correct the notion of many ladies in which they express giving supports to their boyfriends who cheat on them as long as they continue catering for their needs, especially, financial ones.
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I was once advised by an elderly man that no one should manage a woman to marry, marring someone you don't really like, probably after considering your social or financial status at that point in time.

Because no one knows what future holds for anyone.

So from the ladies ' perspective,  no lady should be cool with her boyfriend cheating on her because her needs are satisfied financially. How sure is she that she won't meet a man that will be there for her financially and still not cheat?

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So it is high time ladies, especially in Nigeria, really adjusted their thinking concerning a notion that money answers every question when it comes to choosing someone they will spend the rest of their lives with.

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MOMENT OF TRUTH: YOU WILL NEVER KNOW HOW QUALITES OF A GOOD HUSBAND COULD SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE

To strike a balance, I will be discussing the qualities of a good husband in this post, since the qualities of good wife were discussed in the previous post.

Every good husband always looks for every means to keep his home but unkowingly one might be deviating from the right part. Below the qualites of a good husband will be discussed, and if  you see where you are lagging behind ,you need to adjust to avoid loosing your home.

1.Trust:
 A good husband will always trust his wife. He will not stalk his wife by prying to her phone or secretely following her around to find out any evidence of cheating.

A good husband must avoid acting on what people tell him against his wife. If possible avoid listening to them, because this will create unnecessary suspicions that will later generate rift in the marriage.

2.Be there for your wife:
A good husband will always be there for his wife whenever she needs him. Even if he is really occupied with his busy schedule,

he must ensure he creates time to be with his wife. And at this point in time when your wife needs you, you must ensure you make her have the feeling that you have ''got her back'' by being attentive and exhibiting active listening when she voices out her worries or talk to you.

3.Acceping your wife for whom she is:
A good husband must love his wife's good qualities and accept her flaws too.

He must not complain or blame her for her shortcomings. Instead he should be supportive and assisting her to improve on her weaknesses. There are alot of hidden attributes of your wife that will become clear in the marriage, you should consider that as your cross and still continue to love her.
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4. Accepting your responsiblities:
Since no man is perfect, a good husband must learn to accept his responsibities . And when he makes mistakes, he must accept it and avoid shifting the blame on his wife.

He must learn to admit his faults and, if there is a need, apologise to his wife for the troubles he might have caused her as a result of his mistakes.

5. Always consult your wife:
When making decisions concerning the home, especially finacial decisions, your wife's opinions matter too.

Since both of you are a team, so factoring in her opinions in every decision making sends a signal that she is relevant and her views are also very important in the marriage and she will love you more for this.

6. Go on a date with her:
  No matter how busy your schedule is , ensure you find time to spend quality time with your wife. Take her on a date and  also join her in the activities the she likes more than you do.

let her enjoin every minute of the time spent with her. Most importantly always ensure she is happy and you make your presence count whenever you are with her by doing or saying to her whatever you know makes her happy.

7. Meeting your responsibilities:

 As a good husband, you must strive to always meet your family's financial responsibilies. Occationally, if you could not provide for your family financially for any reason, your wife will understand and support you.

8. Bring the best out of your wife:  Everybody has dreams and aspirations, avoid being the killer of your wife's dreams.

Support her in her dreams and always ensure to bring the best out of your wife. She will appreciate this gesture and love you more for it.

9. Be dependable:
As a good husband, you must be dependable and be relied upon by your wife.

You must ensure that your wife have the belief that your presence is significant  and will always soften (if not solve) her problems.

10 Be honest:
you must be honest.

You must give your wife every reason to trust you by not cheating on her or getting involved in any immoral activity that will raise unnecessary suspicions.

11. Be caring:

As a good husband , you must be affectionate, caring, forgiven, generous and  sensitive to your wife's  needs.

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MOMENT OF TRUTH - 10 QUALITIES OF A GOOD WIFE ARE FINALLY REVEALED.

The role of a wife to maintain and uphold a family bond can not be overemphasized. Many marriages have resulted to divorce today due to the ineptitude of the wife to protect her home.

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It is indisputable that every man wants a good wife to have a good and peaceful home, and every woman also always to be a good wife.

So in this article I will be discussing the qualities of a good wife. 

1. Be honest :

Be honest with your husband and trust him. A man will trust you if only you are open with him. Trust your husband with everything do not keep secrets from him. Stop telling lies. You are with your friends and when your husband calls to know where you are, you tell him you are in the market. 

And also be consistent in what you tell your husband - when your explanations keep changing about a particular happening, your husband will begin to distrust you.

Ask him about how his day was and tell him yours too. If there is anything bothering you, have an honest talk with him. And this will encourage him to do same. By doing so this will strengthen the relationship and your marriage.

2. Keep your home neat: 

Ensure your home is neat and well organized. When your husband gets back from work and meets the home neat, this healthy environment will uplift his spirit and moods.  Though, the chores at home can be stressful but try to do them. This will make him dependent on you and will surely miss you when you are not around.

There is a quote that goes, " a wife is first a friend, second a wife and third, probably most importantly a maid. He will surely appreciate you for everything you have done for him and his home. 

3. Be unpredictable : If you are predictable in your marriage, the home will get boring. So spice things up by surprising your husband with gifts , with romantic gesture at night (you know what I mean) or preparing his favorite meal.

This will make him to always think about your next surprising package.

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4 Give him space:  you should know that your husband has other responsibilities outside the marriage. He has siblings, mother and his family members, he has his interests and hobbies too. Give him space to attend to them, doing so will make him love you more. And likewise you also need space to attend to your people too. So giving each other space bring peace and strengten the relationship. 

Express your love: Don't join the league of women that always find it difficult to express their love to their husbands. Express your love to your husband, and he will appreciate it.

Join in the activities that both of you enjoy and the ones he enjoys more than you. Remember the special days in his life. Get him gifts, this will make him love you more than even expected. 

5: Stop nagging : If a misunderstanding rises  try to talk it out with your husband and let it go. Stop nagging and complaining .

There is saying in which a nagging wife is compared with a dripping faucet. When you continue nagging, it will create unwanted rift in your home and this will make your husband uncomfortable to sit and have a honest talk with you .
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6. Communication: 

It is said that a good communication is key for a successful marriage. Ensure you always sit your husband down and have a good and honest communication with him.

Never hide your feelings , always let him know how you feel about a situation. And also you try to be considerate and see things from his own perspectives. Don't go hostile on him when something bothers you. Try to have calm communication with him and he will be willing to listen to you. 

7. Continue looking good: Do not stop making yourself look good and sexy the way you used to be before you got married to him.

Always continue to maintain your beauty and be neat. Ensure you make your hair and put on sexy dresses when you are with him in your home to make you always attracted to him. Doing so you will block any loopholes for any unwanted elements in your home. 

8. Possess positive qualities : As a good wife you must be caring, lovely, affectionate, kind, warm, pleasant, reliable, responsible and understanding.

You must make him have confidence in you. Support him in failures and success. Always be there for him when he needs you. 

When he comes home from work greet him with a lovely smile but not with a moody continuance. 

9. Go on date with him:  I understand you might have bunk of responsibilities on your shoulder, always create time to go out on date with him.

Don't let your love die by giving too much attention to your work or something else. Doing this will cement the bond in the marriage. 

10: Accept his friends : 

Do not try to separate your husband from his friends. A wife that tries to do that will never succeed. Let him have his time with his friends either by going out to watch football with them or doing something else. 

Try to know his friends. And he will appreciate and love you more doing this. 

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MOMENT OF TRUTH - HOW TO BE A MASTER OF OUR EMOTIONS.

In the world today, with alot of  issues going on around us, everyone is liable to be susceptible to being enslaved by one's emotions.

What do I mean by being emotionally enslaved? when one reacts to a situations in a negative manner without thinking about the effect of one's actions, it means your emotion has become your master, thus this is termed as emotional enslavement.

By having the opportunity to work with different groups of people and studied every individual I have met with,

It has become clear to me that the major problem that causes frictions in our society today is the inability of every individual to control their emotions.

So I am deeply concerned about this, so I  decided to discuss what can be done as individuals to overcome this challenge below.
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We need to first know the kind of people who are liable to have issues controlling their emotions. They are those who are hot tempered, those who are too jealous, those whose childhoods were deprived of parental love or supports and those whose hearts were broken in their previous relationships to list a few.

It is possible for everyone to have gone through one of the aforementioned emotional challenges and yet be doing fine in the society without any emotional issues. all what we need learn are discussed below;

If one is a type who is hot tempered, to overcome this anger and aggression, one needs to choose being EMPHATIC AND UNDERSTANDING.

If  you show empathy to all the people around you or that cross your line by trying to see situations from their own perspectives too, that will enable you to understand them and unknowingly you will be able to suppress your anger.

If you are a type who is always jealous when you see someone who has what you don't have, you will need to value and be contented with what have.

Surprisingly, you will see that you will Live an enviable and a peaceful life.

For those whose childhoods were deprived of parental love, well this is said to be a critical issue, but it can be worked upon.  People do say, "you can't give what you don't have" . That means , if you were deprived  of love in your childhood , its possible that you won't be able to show unconditional caring and love to people.

But can't one borrow what one doesn't have? yes, all you need do is to imagine that you  had a lovely childhood and all the parental love a normal child should have.
Doing this will enable you to show love unconsciously to people. Thereby you will even forget about your childhood's experience.

For those whose hearts were broken in their past relationships, these people tend to believe that everyone they will later be with in life is like their ex - friend.

So they are always prone to be defensive or unconsciously aggressive by trying to visit the pain inflicted on them in their previous relationships on their new partners. And this will surely cause problems in the relationship.  So if one is in this situation , one should learn how to forget the past and move on with one's life. And try to stop thinking that all people are the same, that they will always do bad to you.

So I will leave you with this:
Try to be good to everyone, For, surely that kind gesture will be returned to you.

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