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HOW TO MANAGE ACCOUNTING AND BOOKKEEPING IN QUICKBOOKS ONLINE WITH PROFIT AND LOSS

 

 

HOW TO MANAGE ACCOUNTING AND BOOKKEEPING IN QUICKBOOKS ONLINE WITH PROFIT AND LOSS

To manage accounting and bookkeeping in QuickBooks Online with a Profit and Loss (P&L) statement, you can follow these steps:

               

Welcome to our tutorial on how to perform accounting and bookkeeping in QuickBooks Online with profit and loss. QuickBooks Online is a powerful and easy-to-use accounting software that allows small businesses to manage their finances efficiently. In this tutorial, we will show you how to use QuickBooks Online to track your income, expenses, and profit and loss. We will also provide tips and best practices to help you get the most out of QuickBooks Online. Whether you are new to QuickBooks Online or an experienced user, this tutorial will provide valuable insights and information to help you manage your business finances more effectively.

1.       Set up your Chart of Accounts: Go to the Lists menu and select Chart of Accounts. This is where you'll list all the accounts that you'll use to track your business's income and expenses.

2.       Enter your transactions: QuickBooks Online allows you to enter your transactions in a variety of ways, including manually, importing from your bank, and using apps such as Receipt Bank. It's important to keep your transactions up to date so that your P&L is accurate.

3.       Categorize your transactions: As you enter your transactions, make sure to assign them to the appropriate account in your Chart of Accounts. This will help you track your income and expenses by category.

4.       Run a P&L report: To see your P&L, go to the Reports menu and select Profit & Loss. You can customize the report to show the data that you want, such as a specific time period or account.

5.       Review and analyze your P&L: Take some time to review and understand your P&L. Look for trends and areas where you can improve your profitability. Use the information to make informed business decisions.

6.       Keep your books up to date: It's important to keep your books up to date on a regular basis to ensure that your P&L is accurate. Set aside time each week or month to enter your transactions and review your financial data

7.       Use classes: Classes allow you to track income and expenses by location, department, or any other category that you choose. To use classes, go to the Lists menu and select Class List. Then, assign a class to each transaction as you enter it.

8.       Use the Budget feature: The Budget feature in QuickBooks Online allows you to set financial goals for your business and track your progress. To create a budget, go to the Planning & Budgeting menu and select Set Up Budgets.


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Rise in Poor Parenting in Society

 

"Rise in Poor Parenting in Society"

It seems that every day, we hear more and more stories about bad parenting in our society. From parents neglecting their children, to physical and emotional abuse, it is clear that the problem of poor parenting is on the rise.


But what is causing this increase? Some experts point to the increasing demands and stresses of modern life, which can make it difficult for parents to prioritize their children's needs. Others suggest that a lack of education and support for parents may be contributing to the problem.

Whatever the cause, it is clear that the consequences of poor parenting can be severe. Children who are neglected or mistreated may suffer from physical, emotional, and psychological harm that can last a lifetime. They may struggle in school, have difficulty forming healthy relationships, and be at increased risk for a variety of mental health problems.

So what can be done to address this issue? One solution is to increase support and resources for parents, whether through parenting classes, counseling, or other forms of assistance. We also need to prioritize the well-being of children in our society, and work to create a culture that values and supports good parenting.

Additionally, it is important for parents to seek out and accept help when needed. Raising a child is a demanding and sometimes overwhelming task, and it is completely normal to need support and guidance along the way. It takes a village to raise a child, and seeking out help from friends, family, or professionals does not make you a bad parent. In fact, it shows a willingness to learn and improve, which is essential for being a good parent.

It is also crucial for individuals to speak out against poor parenting when they see it happening. If you witness a child being neglected or mistreated, it is important to report it to the appropriate authorities. This can be a difficult thing to do, but it is an important step in protecting the well-being of children and working towards a society that values and supports good parenting.

In conclusion, the rise in poor parenting in our society is a serious issue that needs to be addressed. By increasing support and resources for parents, prioritizing the well-being of children, and speaking out against poor parenting, we can work towards creating a brighter future for our children and a more supportive and loving society.

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PRACTISE THE FOLLOW CAREER IMPROVEMENT TIPS AND COME BACK TO THANK ME BY THE END OF 2023

PRACTISE THE FOLLOW CAREER IMPROVEMENT TIPS AND  COME BACK TO THANK ME BY THE END OF 2023

                                           

Set specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals for yourself and work towards achieving them. This will show your employer that you are proactive and serious about your career development.

Take on additional responsibilities and projects, even if they are outside your job description. This will demonstrate your willingness to go above and beyond and can also help you build new skills and knowledge.

Network and build relationships within your company and industry. Having strong relationships with your colleagues and industry professionals can open opportunities for career advancement.

Seek out learning and development opportunities, such as taking on-the-job training, completing a professional certification, or pursuing additional education. This will help you stay up to date on industry trends and show your employer that you are committed to personal and professional growth.

Communicate your career goals and aspirations with your manager and seek out their guidance and support. Let them know what you hope to achieve and how you plan to get there.

Be proactive in seeking feedback from your manager and colleagues and use it to identify areas for improvement. This will show your commitment to self-improvement and can also help you better understand what is expected of you in your current role.

Be patient and persistent. Getting a promotion takes time and may require perseverance. Be willing to put in the hard work and stay focused on your goals. 

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Does everyone come to earth with the same amount of potential?

          There has always been an argument as to the potential equality among mankind; that since there is no gainsaying the fact that everyone comes to this earth with a certain amount of potentials, do we all come to earth with the same amount?  This is a major concern to many. And, after given a full consideration to our genetic and environmental factors, which can never be ignored in the history of mankind, I have come to realize that everyone does not come to this earth with the same amount of potential.

          First and foremost, the impact the difference in our genetics has on us can never be overemphasized, which explains the mystery behind why twins from the same parents perform differently in the same class and why we choose different careers in life. Our genetic makeups are different. Everyone doesn’t have the same choice. And our choice dictates what we like and what we don’t. That is why everyone prefers one profession to the other. And professions aren’t the same in value. Even people don’t reach the same level of accomplishments in a profession; some still do better than the other. In his time, Samuel Ajayi Crothers stood out among his peers in Nigeria. This doesn’t really mean that all his peers did not do well, but they never had the same level of accomplishment he had in that line of profession. And this reminds me of twin brothers in my class, when I was in secondary school, one of them was very good at mathematics and the other was very poor but good at other subjects. So it is very clear that the difference in our genetics shows that everyone doesn’t come to earth with the same amount of potential.
In addition to the difference in our genetic makeups, where we are brought up and the kind of companies we keep determine how we think and see life, which in return have a significant influence on what we become in life. In a February 2015 Science News scientist result publication titled “Our thoughts are susceptible to external influence, even against our will” Ezequiel Morsella,, associate professor of psychology and co-author of the study at San Francisco State University, said; “Our conscious thoughts seem protected from our surroundings, but we found that they are much more tightly linked to the external environment than we might realize.” This confirms the saying that we are products of our environments. Our environments influence every aspect of our lives; how we think, how we eat, how we dress etc. at the end it influences what we become in life. Therefore, since we are not born and brought up in the same environments neither do we keep the companies of the same set of people, we are bound to have different likes and dislikes, which will ultimately affect what we become in life and also confirms that everyone doesn’t have the same amount of potential.                    
       
Yes  On the other hand, some have taken the stance that everyone is equal and has the same right before God; therefore we are all created with the same amount of potential. So it now depends on how everyone strives to make use of the potential he has is what differentiates one person from another. Although parts of this argument are valid, but there are some deficits in it, which render the whole submission invalid. Being equal before God does not mean everyone has the same amount of potential, since everyone is not made of the same genetic material nor born in the same environment. In an October 2019, Britannica article titled “Variation” the Editors of Encyclopedia Britannica discussed; “Variation, in biology, is any difference between cells, individual organisms or groups of organism of any species caused either by genetic differences or environmental factors. This difference can be shown in our physical appearance, fertility, behavior, learning and mental ability.” So this variation is certain among us, it gives rise to what makes everyone unique and different from one another and at the end, it affects our potentials.
           Undoubtedly, we can all see how the difference in our genetic makeups and environments affect our lives. And considering these factors, as explained above, everyone doesn’t come to earth with same amount of potential.

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What are three things people can do to start changing a bad habit?

       In life, many people oftentimes find themselves engaging in acts which, after a considerate amount of sober reflection, are seen improper or gruesome. They are seen this way because they always have negative consequences, either to one’s health or how one is perceived in the society. We really don’t want to continue with these acts. Surprisingly, we still go back to engage ourselves in them. These acts are known as bad habits. And the three things people can do to start changing these bad habits are to identify the routine, identify and isolate the cue and experiment with rewards.
It is often said and well understood that whenever a habit or thing is identified a problem, then it is no longer a problem. Because the first step in solving a problem is in agreeing with oneself that there is one, then the solutions to it can’t be farfetched. For example; In the case of someone that always likes to get drunk, masturbate, smoke, or over eat to list a few, once the doer can agree with himself that this habit is bad, then he has taken a first step in doing out with this bad habit. And these bad habits are also known routines. In a February 2019 life hack publication titled “how to break bad habits” Leon HoconfessedFor me, I was sitting most of the day in front of my customer at work in a slouching position. I drank coke every single day in an attempt to stay awake. I put off any kind of exercise regime because I felt that it was better to just relax and have fun after a whole day at work.” This consequently had negative effects on his health; weighty gain and back pains. So, the too much drinking of coke and avoidance of exercises were his routines. Once he was able to identify the habits as a problem, he made a great step towards changing them. Therefore, identifying the routine you want to change is one of the three things to start changing a bad habit.
Every bad habit is intended to be a temporary solution for a particular situation we can find ourselves as humans orunknowingly created because we see others do it. When we are in a worrisome situation and we decide to choose an unhealthy action as a temporary solution to neutralise or satisfy the feelings, if this action is continuously repeated, then our brain will be used to identifying it as the right solution for that situation. This action will unknowinglybecome our habit. Our brains are like a rough pathway, as it has been said, the more we pass through it the more it becomes wider and smooth. So when we repeatedly practise an act then it becomes a habit. So a situation for which a habit is created is the trigger or cue for that habit. And it is said that science has shown that almost all triggers can be found in the following categories; location, time, emotional state, other people, immediately preceding action. This can be easily confirmed by the confession of a friend to masturbation: He said he used to have the urge to masturbate when he was alone in his room. Being alone his room, in another word, hislocation was his trigger to masturbation. So the second thing to start changing a bad habit is to identify the cue that brings about this bad habit. And once this is identified and isolated, the problem is half solved.
There are always alternatives to solving a problem. Once we determine to change our bad habit, we need to find a good alternative action that will later become our new habit. And this new habit will provide us with the exact results we do get from the old habit. So in finding these alternatives, we should be able to provide answers to the following questions; have I identified the trigger? What feelings am I trying to neutralise or satisfying? Is there any other action I can engage myself inthat will give me the same result I get from using my old habit?  Once these are honestly answered, we will realise that there is always a good alternative action to every bad ones. Mind you, if the first action you choose does not give the result you expect, you leave it and try another ones till you get the one with the expected results. This process is calledexperimenting with rewards. That is, you start trying every available good alternative to find the one that will give the result of your old habit. For example, if loneliness is your trigger, you can try meeting with new friends. And if meeting new friends does not solve it, then you should try other good alternative actions till you discover the one that can give the result of the old habitWe will discover that at end of the experiments we will find a good action, and if repeated continuously, this will become our new habit that will successfully replace the bad habit. Though, as supported by Leon Ho in his publication mentioned above; “Decide on something you will do once you feel triggered to go back to your old habits”. If you continuously engage yourself in this new habit, your old habit will be completely replaced.
In conclusion, no matter how obsessed we are with ahabit, once this habit is identified a bad one and we determine to stop it, we will definitely do so. So, therefore, the three things one can do to start changing a bad habit, if followed to the letter, are to identify the routine, identify and isolate the cue, and experiment with rewards, then that bad habit will become something of the past.
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NO PAY NO GAIN IS WHAT LIFE SAYS.

Life is difficult. It comprises of a series of problems.
This is one of the greatest truths of life. Surprisingly, many do not know. And that we must acknowledge.

When we fail to see this, we always try to avoid problems when they arise or try to ignore them, thinking the problems will go away themselves.
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 But when we believe and accept that life is difficult itself then it will no longer be difficult. Because, its difficulties will no longer matter. This enables us to prepare our minds against these difficulties. Thereby it grants us the enablement to transcend them.

So when problems come our ways we will be ready to face them, when we face them and feel the pains that come with them, it strengthens us mentally and also spiritually.

But the desire to ignore or avoid these problems because of the pains that come with them is the basis of human mental illness.
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Many try to deaden themselves to the pains  by taking drugs or try to shift the blames on someone or the society as though life shouldn't have any challenges, but to be always easy.

 But life is not easy, it can't be and it shouldn't  be. Because that is what makes it challenging and interesting.

No pain no gain they say. Absorb the pains to enjoy the benefits.
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THE IMPORTANCE OF MASTERING THE ACT OF SILENCE

Do you know that human beings are endowed from the beginning of time with one major quality which if properly used can be a solution to many of our daily problems in life? Which is silence: The ability to remain silent in some seeming uncontrollable situations.

As simple or common this might sound, those who failed to recognize its magical power are currently in their early graves, hospitals, prisons or having broken homes.

In this post I will quickly describe some situations where there is a need for one to remain silent which can prevent one from making so costly a mistake.

1. An unfortunate encounter with someone who is having a bad time:
  I believe this scenario is often common at work or at social gatherings when someone with whom you often play can easily pick an offence from any little thing you say. And to prevent the situation from degenerating to a regrettable end, it is better for one to resort to being silent and calmly walk way.
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2. Discussions turning to arguments:
Often time, during discussions with loved ones, light discussions can turn to heated arguments. One must not be carried away when this effectually happens. Because argument always creates unnecessary hatred. It is always seen as a competition of egos by the parts involved. people are left emotionally hurt at the end. So when a discussion is turning to a heated argument one person should be silent and calmly claim to agree with the other person for peace to reign.

3. When an audience is not credited during a discussion:
Have you ever found yourself in a casual group of discussion where different views are raised by everyone on a particular topic of discourse and an audience or the necessary acknowledgement is not created for you to add your own views. In this situation you might feel disgruntled and dejected. This always happens when everyone wants his voice to be heard which always results to a lack of decorum and unnecessary quarrels within the group. So in this situation, one needs to know how to be silent and calmly walk away.
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Conclusively, there are a lot of situations in which this quality - the ability to know when to be silent in our daily encounter with people in life, needs to be applied. And the ability to know when to apply it makes one the master of the act. Being a master of this act will prevent one from always having emotional troubles and a lot of preventable mishaps from befalling on us.

        DO NOT WORRY! EVERYTHING WILL SOON BE ALRIGHT



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DO NOT WORRY! EVERYTHING WILL SOON BE ALRIGHT.

There is always a time in one's life when every path will seem blocked or uncertain. Because you have exhausted all the possibilities, yet the expected result is not forthcoming. And you feel embroiled in sadness. So the question you ask yourself at this point in time is "what is the next thing to do". Well, Do not worry! Everything will soon be alright.

Whatever you are looking for in life which seems unachievable or whatever your challenge might be which seems insurmountable, do not worry! Everything will soon be alright.

 You might be sad because you are lagging behind in achievements, Since you have tried every means and all your calories seem depleted. So you do not know what to do next. Though its normal for you to feel sad because that is how human beings are all wired to feel in such situations. It is said that tough time never last but tough people do. So do not worry! Everything will soon be alright.

But the truth is every event is destined to happen at a particular time in life. And every challenge you encounter in life is to train you for the greater good. If your efforts all seem fruitless, do no worry! Everything will soon be alright.

Wait for your time. When it is your time, everything will appear magical, because its manifestation will be incomprehensible. All what you have been struggling to achieve will come to you with ease, without any effort at all. So do no worry! Everything will soon be alright.
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3 WAYS TO LOSE PEOPLE

1. You lose people by being common: That is not being unique.
2. You lose people by being insincere.
3. And you lose people by being bad at what you do.
With all these together and it’s very easy to lose people, including your loved ones.

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WHY WE NEED TO HAVE A SECOND THOUGHT ABOUT RELIGIONS IN AFRICA.

It is very imperative that we bring our attentions to the major cause of problems that have bedeviled Nigeria as a country or even Africa in general. Obviously we can all see the implications of religions in our society today, but oftentimes we are not brave enough to call a spade a spade. And if we agree that there is a problem but we are shying away from identifying the cause of the problem, that means we are not ready to find a last solution to the problem. To this reason I decide to discuss the problems religions have brought to Nigeria, especially the whole Africa.

Let me quickly define religion as the belief and worship of a superhuman who posses a power or powers to control man's destiny. So the religious adherents act and live their lives in accordance to the rules and laws written in the religious books such as Koran and Bible.

There are thousands of religions in the world, but the most practiced ones especially in Nigeria are Christianity, Islam and the traditional religions. So after the arrival of the abrahamic religions in Nigeria, the following problems can not separated from their impacts in the country.

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1. The major purpose of a religion is to create unity and peace, but in reality the reverse is the case. It has caused a lot of divisions in the society: Because every sect always claims that its religion is the accepted one before God, thereby causing problems among them ; The children of one sect are not allowed to marry the children of the other; An as a Muslim getting a job at a Christian owned company is hard and vise versa. So we need to have a second thought religion in Africa.

2. Religion instills fear in its adherents. Because their sermons are often used to threaten or sound a note of warnings to the adherents: That to avoid a curse or damnation, the ways of their lives must be in conformity with some certain principles or guidelines; That they will go to hell if they violate any of the laws; That they will be poor if they don't pay their offerings. So this timidity always limits their freewill to take a certain action their own without any consultation to a religious leader who will happily use that avenue to his own advantage. So we need to have a second thought religion in Africa.

3. Added to the above, a lot of religious racketeers, so-called men of God, use this religion as a means to dupe people, especially the poor ones, of their hard earned money by promising them rewards, some will say they will marry "seven virgins", in heaven while they are enjoying their lives right here on earth. Amazingly there is always a chapter of the books they will quote to support their dubious actions. So we need to have a second thought religion in Africa.

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4. In Addition, many political leaders or government use religion as tool to champion their cause by inciting the populace against one other with the use of this slogan " we versus them". So they use religion to cause troubles in the society that always lead to loss of lives and properties.
The practical examples of this in Nigeria are the Boko Haram insurgency issue that Nigeria is currently battling with and the recent crisis in Kaduna state that led to loss of many lives.

5. Religion creates discrimination against women. Even though almost 90 per cent of many religious gatherings are women and they contribute the most to the offertories in those religious gatherings, yet there are certain positions they are not allowed to occupy.  So we need to have a second thought religion in Africa.

6. Religion causes laziness, many of these religious leaders remain solely on the tithes and offerings from their members. They never deem it fit to have their own personal businesses. And they will cunningly schedule their services on the days of week and thereby preventing the members from spending the required time to make maximum sales and profits from their businesses. It's logical, the more time you spend on your business, the higher the sales and the gains will be.  So we need to have a second thought religion in Africa.

7. Religion causes carelessness among its members. That reminds me of a story my mother told me someimes ago. My mother was away when I was a child for several days. I was only home with my Dad. So during this period I got sick instead for him to take me to hospital, he didn't. Because his church doctrine forbade him to use medication but only water. So he kept praying over me and bathing me with water until my mother came around. She could not take it when she saw my condition and quickly rushed me to hospital. It's discovered I needed blood and which was given to me. Had she not come home on time I would not be here to write this post today.
So a lot of children have lost their lives through this means.  So we need to have a second thought religion in Africa.

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8. Religion breaks homes and causes murders. Many adherents have received prophecies from their religious leaders that their wives or fathers are behind their problems which have resulted to the adherents maiming or killing their loved ones.  So we need to have a second thought religion in Africa.

9. Finally, religion doesn't encourage critical thinking which has caused Nigeria, or Africa in general, to lag behinds in technology. Because when we will face a challenge instead of looking for away to prevent the challenge from reoccurring and thinking of a way to make our lives better we, attribute it to destiny and the will of God.  So we need to have a second thought religion in Africa.

So if we can stand to face the reality that religion has caused more harm than good in your society I believe that will be a step toward finding a lasting solution to the current crisis and the under development problems we find ourselves in Nigeria or in Africa as a whole.

Note: I do not write this to condemn any religion, because I also do believe in the existence of God. But I only write this as a wake up call to reality. Which will serve as a bold step in making our country a better place.

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THE STEPS TO POVERTY THAT MANY PEOPLE UNKNOWINGLY TAKE.

Many people continue to remain poor because they trend on the path of poverty. I believe it is everyone's dream to find a lasting solution to poverty.
But many fail to identify some certain steps, that when taking it is a direct path to poverty. So for those who want to get rid of poverty in life, these steps are to be recognized and worked upon.

Having only one major way of income:
To remain poor for life is to rely on one major way of making money. Many people depend only on their monthly salaries without taking any steps to get any additional means of generating incomes. No matter how well paid you are at end of the month, depending solely on the salary means  you are trending on a  path of poverty.

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 Exhausting your earnings:
Once you have chosen "spend it all" as your slogan, you should know that you have signed a contract with poverty. Some people find it hard to save from their earnings. They never consider savings important. So if you always finish your salary without saving part of it for investments and as something to fall back to in a financial crisis, you are trending on a path of poverty.

Believing that getting rich is magical:
When you believe that getting rich requires some magic. That getting rich always requires illegit means. This belief won't enable you to focus on the legit means to make money. So when you have this mindset about getting rich, you are trending on the path of poverty.

Not investing in yourself:
To succeed in a particular field or an enterprise requires learning the technical know-how of that field or the enterprise as the case maybe. And many people always fail to invest on themselves to learn the skills required towards becoming experts in their various fields of choice. So when you fail to invest on yourself, to succeed in that field will be very hard and you will never keep pace with your contemporaries. And this will result to a trend on the path of poverty.
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Piling up debts:
When you get a loan always use it for investments. And the loans must be serviced as and when due. In a case where you have accumulated debts you should clear them all. Because doing so will speak well of your integrity.

Failure to create budgets:
Once you fail to create budgets and work towards achieving them. that is a trend on a path of poverty.

Failure to take risks:
If you can't recognize an opportunity when you see one. And when you often scared to take a calculated risk, you are trending on a path of poverty.

Be Indecisive:
Lastly,  when you are indecisive about taking a cogent decision on achieving your plans or when taking calculated risks , it will pose a problem for you on your path to a financial victory.

So if the steps to financial problems discussed above can be acknowledged and worked on, I believe poverty will surely go into extinction in everyone's life.

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STOP WORRYING ABOUT BEAUTY. HERE IS THE SECRET.

 I have seen a lot of ladies who always feel inferior in the midst of their friends, because they see themselves ugly while their friends beautiful. Thereby it makes them to think that they are no match with their peers which brings about this inferiority complex in them. So, today I decide  to write about this to address this issue.
                              Do you know Confidence bring beauty?
On a pathway to beauty is confidence. And to be confident you should consider the following steps -
Being comfortable with yourself:
To be comfortable with yourself you need to give a full consideration to what you put on. This does not necessary mean putting on something expensive. It means wearing something you are comfortable in.  And being comfortable in your wears means you are happy wearing them. Because when you are happy with yourself it builds confidence in you. Which is what you need.

Giving a great consideration to neatness :
I would have omitted this point because it sounds laughable asking anyone to be neat. But truth be told , it is not everyone that considers neatness as that important. One will be amazed when one sees sometimes how dirty the undies a lady is putting on are. When ladies should always be in the forefront for the advocacy of this quality. So no matter how simple your wears are, ensure they are neat.

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self-appreciation:
You need to appreciate youself by seeing yourself  beautiful, happy, intelligent and enviable. So you should see yourself the way you want people to see you. You should know that before anyone will like you, you neet to like yourself. If you don't like yourself nobody will like you. Stop seeing yourself ugly. People see you the way you see yourself.

Never pay attention to the bad comments some people might make against you:
Some people will never be happy seeing you happy. So they tend to say bad things about you in a bid to bring you down, to create fear in you, to see yourself inferior to them. The logic is that when you feel down you create the room for them to feel superior. Which is their main objective. So never give ear to any negative comments about you.

Though there are a lot books written about how to be confident, but the most important thing is that when you like and appreciate yourself it will strike out inferiority complex in you.
               Nobody is ugly!
Beauty is from the mind. No one is ugly. It is your thinking that sends a clear signal out on how you want to be seen and treated by people.

So the bottom line is that to be beautiful out there, you need to have confidence in yourself . Having confidence in yourself makes you think beautifully about yourself. In return beauty will be generated in you, you will feel beauty and reflect beauty to the outside world.

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